Protecting Your Church from Predators

Any institution that deals with children is a target for sexual predators: churches especially, but not exclusively. More than once, I have pointed out the fact that the public schools have a severe problem with this – a problem that dwarfs anything Independent Baptist churches or any other religious institution might have. I don’t say this to minimize problems the IFB might have with sexual misconduct or coverups. We have had some terrible cases of abuse that have done unspeakable damage to God’s children. There is no excuse for this. Our churches must take decisive action to protect our children. However, it has been estimated that as many as 10% of public school students will be the victims of some form of sexual assault while at school – much of it at the hands of teachers and staff.

I wonder why this hasn’t been exposed. We know all about the problems and scandals religious institutions have had. Why is there no concern about the public schools? The United States has 49.4 million public school students. If 10% of them have been the victims of sexual assault at school, that would mean almost 5 million victims. Why isn’t that the biggest scandal ever?

Whatever problems the world might have, churches should be on the front lines of protecting children. If anyone qualifies as a wolf, it would be a person – pastor or otherwise – who preys on children.

Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood. For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock. Also of your own selves shall men arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away disciples after them. (Acts 20:28-30)

I shudder at the thought that a child in any of our ministries would become the victim of a predator. We have spent much time over the years putting policies in place, developing solid training for our volunteers, and teaching our parents and children how to recognize grooming, what is appropriate and inappropriate touching, and what to do if an adult violates any of the boundaries we have put in place. I want to share some of the resources, policies, and training material we have used so churches can have the resources needed to protect their children.

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The Ooze From the Hyles Dumpster

A week ago, the Fundamental Baptist Podcast, hosted by David Baker, posted an episode in which Dave Hyles refuted his sister Linda’s now-famous claims about her father Jack Hyles. This has been a long time coming. Linda gave her TED talk in 2012 – more than a dozen years ago. So one might wonder why Dave waited so long to answer it. Maybe he had other affairs to attend to…

There is a reason why we keep our dumpsters out of sight, far removed from our places of business. Besides those especially ripe fragrances that surround it, we find ourselves stepping carefully, the closer we get, lest we step into a puddle that wasn’t caused by any rain. The liquids that ooze out from beneath the dumpster have a way of staying on your shoes, and nobody wants to track that around.

Even so, it seems impossible to come near the Hyles airspace without getting a little dumpster jam on your clothes. It’s a stench you can’t shake, and nobody wants to smell like that. And the Fundamental Baptist Podcast is like a steaming mess of toxic fumes. As just one sample of the rotting mess from this podcast, neither David Baker nor Dave Hyles believes repentance to be a necessary step to restoration – “We start the restoration process before they repent.” Vintage. Don’t nobody look at 2 Corinthians 7:8-12.

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Double Standards

Divers weights, and divers measures, both of them are alike abomination to the LORD. (Proverb 20:10)

God hates a double-standard — one standard applied to ourselves or our friends and allies, slanting things in our own favor, and another standard applied to our rivals or adversaries that slants things against them.  The idea of a double standard comes from these divers weights and divers measures spoken of in the proverb. The Hebrew reads “a stone and a stone, a measure and a measure.”  The idea is that you have a large weight and a small weight, a large measure and a small measure. Depending on the transaction, one set would be used for buying and the other for selling.

To this day, this kind of thing is a universal means of cheating your customer.  We do it with or without scales and weights.  When buying merchandise, we point out the flaws and talk the product down.  When selling, we ignore (or conceal) the flaws and talk the product up.  The age-old double standard still carries the freight.

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