Abuse Among Independent Baptists

Two Sunday nights ago, one of our men made me aware of a series of articles that appeared in the Fort Worth Star-Telegram the week prior.  This series of articles highlighted cases of sexual misconduct in Independent Baptist Churches, claiming to have uncovered hundreds of cases in nearly 200 different churches.  Our church member was concerned about this article because the Star-Telegram created a map to serve as a database of sexual misconduct among Independent Baptist churches, and our church was included on that map.

When I saw our church, and the specific case they mentioned, I was not concerned.  A few years ago, a young man in our church was arrested for possession of child pornography.  As a matter of policy, our church has always cooperated with law enforcement in such cases, and this case was no different.  There was no concealment on our part, no attempt to hide what he did.  When the news media showed up at my door, I answered their questions.  We were very clear in our judgment against this sin: it has no place among God’s people.  We sought to protect our church and to ensure the safety of every child.

So, when I saw our church listed on a database of churches guilty of sexual misconduct, I assumed that this would be easy enough to clear up.  I immediately sent an email to the Star-Telegram reported in order to clear up the matter.  I gave her four reasons why we should not be included in her database: first, because there are no allegations of sexual misconduct against our church, certainly not in the matter of this young man.

The fact that a young man in our congregation was arrested for child pornography does not warrant this charge.  No allegation was ever made, found, or substantiated that he had committed a crime against any child in our ministry, or that he committed his crime on our property or in conjunction with any of our ministries.

Second, because when we learned of this young man’s problem with child pornography, we immediately insisted that he go to the police to turn himself in.

I personally cooperated with the police in the matter and sought justice for the children in those videos.  None of the children in those videos were known to us, as the police stated very clearly.  Never was there a charge that the child pornography he viewed was generated in our church or involved any children known to Jeremiah.  He did not produce the videos, merely viewed them.  We did not conceal his crime in any way.  These things are a matter of public record, and this has been our practice whenever there has been an allegation against any member of our congregation.  Simply put, we do not tolerate sexual abuse, nor do we protect abusers.

Third, because we had greatly limited any access this young man might have had at least a year prior to his arrest because we had concerns about his involvement with pornography that really amounted to an addiction.

In short, while the incident with this young man was a bad deal and involved our church in a painfully public situation, we believe that we handled the matter both ethically and Scripturally.  There is no “sexual misconduct” involving our church ministries.

The editor of the Star-Telegram, Mr. Steve Coffman, replied that while they appreciated that I brought “this additional information and context to our attention” they would not be removing us from the database because

There are a number of other cases included in the map in which someone’s crimes did not occur at church or involve a church member but had an impact on the congregation, as I’m sure (this young man’s) case did with your congregation.

In other words, since his actions impacted our congregation, our church therefore is part of a broader problem of sexual misconduct.  Frankly, this is bogus.  The Star-Telegram claims to have “uncovered” over 400 cases of sexual misconduct on the part of Independent Baptist Churches, but includes cases where neither the church nor the leadership of the church was the perpetrator of the alleged sexual misconduct or implicit in it. That is seriously misleading.  According to the article “How the Star-Telegram Investigated Sex Abuse in Fundamental Baptist Churches,”

The Star-Telegram counted 187 independent fundamental Baptist churches and affiliated institutions that had been affected by sexual abuse allegations.  The Star-Telegram included in its count churches where alleged abusers had served before or after alleged abuse occurred because the allegations could affect the congregants.

I find this duplicitous at best, and pushing the edges of integrity.  Apparently, they intend for the term “affected” to be understood in the broadest possible sense.  In our case, the “impact” on the congregation was, above all else, heartbreaking for our people.  We were not heartbroken for ourselves by the way, and we have nothing to be ashamed of in the way we dealt with this young man.  Our heartbreak was for this young man who became so ensnared by Satan.  And while protecting our church and especially our children from any risk from him, our biggest concern was to see him recovered from Satan’s snares.  But when the Star-Telegram exploits his case in order to inflate their numbers, their own motivation in this series is brought into question.  The struggles of print media, and specifically of the Star-Telegram being well-documented (link to articles about their restructurings), one is left to wonder if this is not a desperate attempt to draw attention, not to the issue itself, but to themselves for the sake of self-preservation.  Certainly in Texas, one would imagine that any scandal involving Baptists is bound to gain some attention.  But exploiting, for financial purposes, in some cases decades old cases of sexual misconduct hardly seems to be about truth and justice.

Because Christianity Today has taken up the cause and spread this misinformation, I feel I need to say a few words.

First, one of the major accusations against Independent Baptists coming from the broader evangelical world has been that we are “hyper-separatists.”  Having grown up in Independent Baptist circles, I have seen the way churches tend to cluster in particular circles, usually based on a particular college or Big Name.  But one thing that often gets overlooked in discussions of separation and hyper-separation is the role that sexual indiscretions have played in the issue.  Frankly, a significant portion of the Independent Baptist world has turned a blind eye to the moral failures of their leadership.  And while the public reason for many of the divisions among Independent Baptists have been “theological” issues (often loosely defined), the truth is that under the surface, much of the division has had to do with the way certain camps deal with sexual indiscretions.

Independent Baptists have a sad history of turning a blind eye to moral failure.

This controversy, I think as much as any, has caused much of the undercurrent

It is good and right that this should be exposed

This is not a new thing.  For the past 2 decades, the issue has been discussed over and over.  Websites, forums, and etc. have been dedicated to exposing it and repudiating it.

I have played at times a very active role.  I personally exposed the pastor I grew up under for this very thing.  It is shameful and disgraceful that this has happened, and worse that it has been covered up.  And it is true that some of the strange doctrines common among Independent Baptists have enabled it.

The Star-Telegram has done a disservice to the issue by including a number of churches who are simply not guilty of sexual misconduct.  They sought to pad their numbers, and in doing so undermine their case.

They have dredged up decades old cases that have been well-documented, exposed, and frankly, most Independent Baptists including those in the Hyles’ circle of churches have condemned this sort of thing.

This is an example of media excess.

Every institution that deals with children has come under scrutiny, and has been found to have these kinds of things.  With one glaring exception.

The cause – human fallenness.  Simply put, we cannot trust ourselves.  We must enforce safeguards.  we cannot tolerate abuse in our churches.  Period.

LDS Friend, Please Watch This…

Through the years, I have been privileged to develop some really good friendships with Utahns who also belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.  Recently, I watched the video shared at the bottom of this post, and I could not help but think of every one of you.  I want to make a simple request: would you watch this young man’s testimony?

By his testimony, Micah Wilder found the truth when he read the Bible as a child.  What does it mean to “read the Bible like a child?”  Instead of looking at it for confirmation of what you have always believed, read it as if it is your Father writing to you, telling you what He wants you to know about Himself, and what He has done for you.

Since coming to Utah more than 20 years ago, it has been our longing prayer that more of our fellow Utahns would come to know the peace and rest promised in Scripture, that you would be free from the pressure-cooker of performance-based religion and be able to rest completely in Jesus Christ.  This young man found something.  That is clear from what he says.  He found something that he wasn’t looking for and didn’t want.  He wasn’t searching, he wasn’t troubled, he wasn’t hiding any dark secrets or living a double life.  He lived out his religion with a great deal of zeal, but as he says, it was not according to knowledge.  His message is worth considering.  As your friend, I hope you will consider it.

A Worship Style Primer, Part 3

This is the third and final installment in a brief series outlining a few basic guidelines for worship style. In this series, I am countering the idea that worship style is mere preference, as promoted by Josh Teis and Robert Bakss.  If you have not yet read the first two articles on this subject, you really ought to before reading this article.  The two previous articles are available here and here.  In this article, I will lay out some practical considerations.  Please note, this article does not give a detailed list of Scriptural standards for worship.  The goal here is to give general principles.  In the future, I hope to address more specific answers to the contemporary style of worship now embraced by a growing number of Independent Baptists who hope to move others away from reverence in worship.

A “cowboy church” has a bull-riding arena in the middle of the “sanctuary.”  Another church hosts a “fight club” to reach people for Jesus.

Based on what Josh Teis argues, I wonder Continue reading “A Worship Style Primer, Part 3”

A Worship Style Primer, Part 2

This is the second offering on worship style, in answer to the claim made by Contemporary Independent Baptists like Josh Teis (see this link also) and Robert Bakss that worship style is merely a matter of preference and personal taste.  If you have not yet read the first in the series, please kindly follow this link before reading this post.

In the first post in this short series, I sought to distinguish between the subjective and the objective in order to establish a foundation of objective beauty.  As style is an element of beauty, it is necessary that we understand that beauty is not divorced from truth or goodness, and that none of the three are purely subjective.  Christians have historically believed in objective truth, objective goodness, and objective beauty.  The ultimate objective standard of truth, goodness, and beauty is God Himself, Who is truth, is holy, and is altogether lovely.  Because we are commanded to worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness, our worship style must reveal that beauty, must show what the beauty of holiness looks like.

In this post, I want to Continue reading “A Worship Style Primer, Part 2”

A Worship Style Primer: Rudiments

Before We Begin…

In this particular series of posts, I am dealing with worship style, not worship music – though worship music is a part of the overall style.  I want to be clear on that point because some Facebook readers did not seem to understand that, especially some who read my article on Tom Brennan’s Facebook page (at https://www.facebook.com/tom.brennan.58/posts/10214908523539365).  I intend to deal with worship music eventually, but first, I want to establish a foundation for style in general, and for worship style in particular.  In previous articles, especially my article called “Gothpel Style,” I was attempting to show from Scripture that God cares about style, that style is not merely a matter of preference, a neutral vehicle for conveying a somehow disconnected message.  The Scripture passages I used were not intended to speak specifically to the subject of music, though I do believe they establish a certain kind of style that should be used in worship.

That said, I hope to advance the discussion here in order to outline a Scriptural worldview regarding worship style.  Please note that this series of posts deals with the big picture first, and from there will seek to offer some specific principles.

Rudiments of Style

Style rightly belongs with beauty, the third of what has been called the “transcendentals” of truth, goodness, and beauty.  As I have pointed out, Contemporary Independent Baptists like Josh Teis and Robert Bakss argue Continue reading “A Worship Style Primer: Rudiments”

Gregory – Gospel Answers to Ultimate Questions

This is a letter I sent a couple of years ago in response to an email inquiry through our church’s website. I have changed the name of the person I was responding to. I did not hear back from this person, and do not know whether their questions were for research or for their own sake. But as this is a gospel message, I thought I would share it. 

Gregory,

I received your list of questions, and I am glad to give an answer. Thank you for including me in your search. Since I don’t know you, I can only assume that you are searching for the truth by investigating the answers of different churches. If so, I understand why you would feel a little confused about the different answers you have heard. I certainly do not want to add to that confusion.

Can we know the truth? Some scientists (ironically) claim that there is no absolute truth – and they are quite absolute about that. They insist that we cannot know the truth, and are troubled by those who claim to know it. I sometimes wonder if those who insist that the truth cannot be known have ever considered the self-contradiction in that claim. If the truth cannot be known, is that the truth? And if so, how can we know that?

Continue reading “Gregory – Gospel Answers to Ultimate Questions”

Gothpel Style

Contemporary Independent Baptists like Josh Teis and Robert Bakss insist that style is a matter of preference, that God says nothing about style. You prefer traditional hymns; we prefer contemporary. You prefer a suit and tie; we prefer casual. You want the lights bright; we like them dim. You use a pulpit; we prefer an open stage. Potayto; potahto.

But not so fast. These men make some major leaps based on assumption.  They do not attempt to prove their major premise.  They beg the question; they assume what they should prove; they rely on “special pleading” to make their case.

Their major premise, that style is merely a matter of preference, exposes a serious worldview flaw.  It does not faithfully represent Scripture. Ultimately, their principle of musical style undermines the worship being offered to a holy God. In response, I offer three points to consider.

First, Style is not Neutral

The idea that style is neutral, that style choices are merely preference choices, reveals a deep worldview flaw that cannot be ignored. To argue that style is a matter of preference is to say that there are areas in this world over which God makes no claim, over which Jesus Christ is not Lord. If in fact, the Lordship of Jesus Christ does not extend to our style choices, then anything goes. Why not host a Pajama Sunday?  After all, how else will we reach late-night WalMart shoppers?  Better yet, Continue reading “Gothpel Style”

Gone Contemporary

Recently, several pastors reached out to me about a conference in the Northeast where both Southern Gospel and Contemporary Christian music were a major part of the program.  As a result of their call, I began to look into the use of contemporary music among Independent Baptists.  For quite a few years now, a segment of Independent Baptist pastors and churches have been “modifying” contemporary worship music, attempting to use the music without the characteristic soft rock beats and rhythms.  Over the past few years, some have thrown off their inhibitions, so that we now have a group of men who do not conceal their whole-hearted embrace of contemporary worship music.   They don’t water it down.  They don’t deny it or downplay it.  They have in fact launched a campaign to correct what they see as the “unscriptural” view of worship held by so many stodgy Independent Baptists.

Though I find their position appalling, Continue reading “Gone Contemporary”

A Note to My LDS Friends about the Trinity

Dear Friend,

Over the past 21 years of ministry in Utah, I have enjoyed the robust discussion we have on issues surrounding doctrine and the church. More than a few of you have made the attempt to “convert” me, and in fairness, I have not been coy about my desire to see you converted either. So what I am about to say comes out of the numerous conversations about God and the Bible we have had in my living room, in my office, or at a restaurant.

It seems to me that you believe the doctrine of the Trinity to be my Achilles’ heel. You might even believe the Trinity to be the strongest argument against orthodox Christianity. I will admit that I am relying more on anecdotal experience than hard evidence or statistics, but every time a Mormon friend – and over the years I have been blessed to make many friends here in Utah – attempts to convert me, the Trinity is always the starting point of the conversation.

Let me just say that I think I understand why you want to start there. The doctrine of the Trinity is absolutely the most difficult of all the doctrines of orthodox Christianity. You have probably noticed that even those who claim to believe in the Trinity struggle to explain exactly what they believe about the Trinity. I will not deny that the doctrine is difficult or even counterintuitive – you might think it untenable. And along with that, you probably recognize that the doctrine of the Trinity is the sine qua non of the Christian faith, the point on which all other points depend. Unless we know Who God is, we have nothing.

As a friend, I want to offer two things in this short epistle. First, I want to give you a brief sketch of the orthodox doctrine of the Trinity held by the historic Christian faith. This doctrine, by the way, was held long before Nicea. The word Trinity itself is found more than 100 times in the writings of the ante-Nicean fathers who date all the way back to Continue reading “A Note to My LDS Friends about the Trinity”

Utah’s Sex Change Bill – SB 138

The Utah Legislature is considering a bill that paves the way for the transgendered to seek a legal sex change. I have been in contact with the author of the bill, Senator Todd Weiler, since the bill was first introduced. Initially, Senator Weiler told me that the bill was simply meant to provide guidance to judges for these matters, rather than allow the judges to legislate from the bench. Believe it or not, Utah has had a law in place for 43 years that about half of our judges interpret to allow a legal sex change. The language is somewhat obscure, but it is in place.
 
As this bill has progressed now through 3 substitute bills, it has followed a normal course for a controversial bill, first tipping in favor of one side in the debate, then of the other. However, the 3rd substitute of the bill, available at https://le.utah.gov/~2018/bills/static/SB0138.html, offers 3 options – “male, female, or other,” and requires nothing more than a “sincerely held belief” of a sex change.
 
The biggest problem with this bill is the risk to conservative churches like ours. Our church would not accept a homosexual couple into membership. That would violate our deepest convictions about the nature of marriage and God’s view of sexuality. Currently, state law protects our right to take this position. Of course, if a homosexual couple came to faith in Jesus Christ, we would accept them into membership once they dissolved their marriage and the homosexual relationship.
 
But suppose we are discussing a gay couple, and one of the partners in the marriage sought and obtained a legal sex change. Would the law still consider the couple to be a gay couple? Would the law require us to treat them as a heterosexual couple?
 
By conviction, should a couple like that profess faith in Jesus Christ and apply to our church or a church like ours for membership, we would make the same stipulation as in the case of a gay couple. But would the law accommodate us in this position? I say that it is impossible to know. Certainly, the legal standing would change, and no doubt this would be tested in court. Cultural pressure is already decidedly against us. I see this as a losing situation for our church and every church that takes the same stand as ours.
 
For our LDS friends, a similar question must be considered. If an individual were to seek and obtain a legal sex change, would they then be qualified for a priesthood position in the LDS church, and would the LDS church be at risk if they denied them that position? Again, we are too early in this process to know the answer to that question. But I believe that the LDS church or perhaps a church like mine would eventually find themselves dragged into court over this issue.
 
For this reason, I am urging all Utah residents to contact their Senator and urge them to vote against this bill.